Tag: peace
What are your reflectors?
Do you hold fear, insecurity, the feeling of not being good enough in you?
Find the reflectors that are holding you back, that are not working for you and work through them. Ask yourself, what reflectors am I wearing? What is reflecting back to me?
If you are angry or sad about something, or have negative emotions toward someone, you are in a low energy pattern. It will continue until you work through it and change it. Try to look at your issues and relationships as reflectors you are wearing. What does it reflect to you? What shows up in your life that annoys you? You are holding an aspect in some shape or form of the issue or person you judge and feel angry or sad about. Or maybe it’s a childhood issue or something that’s emerging from a past life.
Find out what it is for you. You might have to do some digging work and find out the beliefs that are holding you back. Replace your anger with kindness and love; make peace with the issue or the person. Raise your vibration, work through the issue, and send love and forgiveness and then let it go. Thank the person for the great gift they have been for you. The people who challenge you the most are your best teachers, as hard as it seems at the time. If someone is pushing your buttons, it shows there is struggle or drama, find it and clear that reflection you are holding. If the vibration is dense, work through it until it feels lighter.
We are receivers and transmitters. We feel drawn to certain people, we enjoy their company from the first moment we meet them; others you want to run from when you see them. Have you ever noticed how you feel when you walk into Wal-Mart or any other crowded; or low vibration place or store? Simply turn up your light and EMANATE — be the lighthouse, not the sponge, and others around you will do the same! We attract what we reflect. It’s all light and vibration. Find the reflector when it shows up and clear it, if you are holding it. You can’t change others, but you can clear the issue through healing yourself. Don’t exhaust yourself by trying to change other people. But you can change your experience of life if you clear your own energy. Some of us have a subconscious need for struggle. Release the need for struggle based on what your reflectors are. Clear your reflectors energetically, clear the heavy energy within and around you.
Sometimes you have to be still and go within to find out what the pattern is. Or, if you don’t find it, sometimes with the help of a Practitioner you’ll be able to locate the issue and work on it together in releasing it. Once you find it, dissolve, resolve, release and clear it, and make changes — go inside and turn up the light and clear it once and for all.
Allow yourself to look at the emotions and work through them. Raise your consciousness and send “your teachers” love anyways’; it allows you to move on, and out of the negative vibrations.
Think about when relationships end, there is usually a missing link. That can be romantically, friendships, or business relations, in general.
If there is no mutual love, respect, trust, or commitment from both sides there can be no real future in a relationship. Something will always be missing. If one of the links is missing, then it’s like a chain reaction. If one partner decides not to respect the other one, where is the commitment and love in the relationship? Or if the commitment from one partner is gone, where is the mutual love and respect? When boundaries are broken, it’s hard to move forward in a relationship. There needs to be genuine love and safety in a relationship. It’s a two-way street.
It does not mean you don’t love the other person in some shape or form anymore. If you learned your lesson and you are done with your soul contract, don’t feel bad if you walk away in dignity and let the other person live their life. Forgive yourself, and forgive the other person. It is okay to forgive and be forgiven and it’s okay to forgive yourself. It might take a while to get there. Don’t beat yourself up over what could have or should have been. Make an internal inventory, do your self-work, go within yourself, and see if you can live with broken trust or a broken commitment. For some people it might be possible to move forward in a relationship after one of the chains have been broken, that means that the soul contract is not done yet, or the lesson not learned yet. Forgive yourself anyways. Whatever you do, it’s okay! When the other person moves on and is not committed to you and no longer respects, trusts,or loves you anymore, it was about themselves and their insecurities, and had nothing to do with you. This is hard to accept sometimes; I know out of experience.
What I can tell you helped me in the past, is: Go within, feel the pain, work through it for as long as it may take you and then let the emotion go. Let your inner pilot light guide you in making the right decisions to move forward. Trinity Energy Progression™ has helped me work through a lot of pain and let go of a lot of reflectors.
Your inner voice always knows; you just have to be quiet enough to listen to it. With all the turmoil and other’s opinions around us, we don’t stop and trust our own Divine Light sometimes. Only you can live your life and decide what is best for you and the lessons you have come here to fulfill and learn; nobody else can do that for you. See past relationships, as painful as the end might have been, as the gift they really have been to you. See the lesson you learned from it and thank the Universe for it and move on without regret.
I learned a lot from my pets, especially my dog, about unconditional love and trust. Animals trust they will be fed and taken care of. They don’t worry about tomorrow. They live in the moment. They are happy to see you, even if they get the same food every day, and they never complain. They are grateful and they love you unconditionally anyway – even when you had a hard day, even if you feel insecure, not good enough, or just sad. They wag their tail when you come home. If it’s just been an hour or a day, they wait patiently by the door to greet you. They are committed to their family. We can learn a lot from our pets. Go with the flow, do what makes you happy.
Choose work that makes you happy, find your passion! Choose your partner wisely. Does he or she make your life even happier? If they walk in the door, do you get as excited to see them, as your dog is when you come home? Just think about it for a moment and let it sink in. If the answer is yes, then you are good; otherwise work on the issue. Or, just get a dog or cat, they love you unconditionally just the way you are! ? Bring balance in your life and remember the Divine Being you truly are. You deserve life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness.
Let your light shine through in all that you do,
Claudia Stevens
Facilitator, Trinity Energy Progression
Up From the Ashes
“Whether we remain the ash or become the phoenix is up to us.” ~ Ming-Dao Deng
I lay in bed that morning, languishing somewhere between waking and dreaming. This particular morning felt much different than all the others as I tried to navigate through the fog that was my mind. Even though I was just waking up for the day, I felt exhausted. It was the kind of tiredness that permeated every particle and fiber of my being. I somehow felt as if my spirit, my everlasting soul, the essence of who I know myself to be, was in the process of leaving my body, for the last time. My first thought was of my children. In that brief moment of quiet reflection, I decided that together they would be alright in the world without me. In desperation, I summoned my spiritual guides and angels, requesting their much needed help. I felt as though I no longer had the will, or the strength to carry on. Before I drifted back off to sleep, my last conscious thought was declaring to myself, “I surrender.”
After more than fifty years in this body, enduring childhood abuse, domestic violence, neglect, poverty, and ultimately trying to work through all of it in therapy, I had never surrendered before, I had never entirely given up – on me. A survivor, a fighter, it had always gone against my nature to admit that perhaps I could not count on myself any longer. It felt as if all of the suffering and pain had finally taken its toll. In what seemed like my darkest hour, I came to the realization that something would have to be different. I could no longer survive in the world like this.
Living most of my life in a deep state of denial, I thought about the words someone dear to me once said, “…once denial is broken, you can never go back.” I looked upon this vivid, yet surreal experience and felt such gratitude and at the same time, a deep sense of sadness that this is how it would end. The death grip I’d had on life was slipping, I could no longer hold on. I found myself in a place I had heard about but had never personally experienced. A place where one arrives, perhaps not knowing how they came to be there. A place one can only access after letting go of absolutely everything else.
My expectation was that I would drift off to sleep and not wake up. That somehow I would continue to depart my body and my spirit would exit this earthly existence.
What happened next was quite a surprise to me. As soon as I chose to surrender and let go, I heard a voice inside me say, “It’s not your time.” No words can express the relief and freedom I felt in that moment. Not only did I recognize that I was not alone, I knew from that point forward, my life would never be the same again. It was such a life changing and deeply freeing experience to finally, finally know that even when I was at my lowest point, I am not alone – I am – always here, in this eternal Now!
Tammy Taylor
Facilitator, Trinity Energy Progression
The Day the Music Stopped
At some point I became aware that upon waking, there would be times when I would hear music playing in my head, like a pre-recorded broadcast that had started without me. How long had this been going on I wondered? There was no quiet or peace like I would expect to have after waking from a night’s rest. Like a constant DJ, all types of random music played in my head. The funny thing I noticed though was that once I heard it, barely aware enough to recognize the song, the music would stop. Perplexed, I then asked myself, is it a radio signal that I am picking up from somewhere? Either that or perhaps my subconscious mind was busy running the show; it surely wasn’t a conscious choice on my part. Yet that made no sense to me at all.
Often, I would wake up in the morning with my first thought being, “who picked that song”? And then as soon as I had that thought, I could no longer hear the song, as if someone had turned off the station or turned down the volume. I then entertained the idea that if I wasn’t consciously choosing the music, then maybe my job was really to be the observer. You know the one that stands off to the side watching everything unfold.
As I explored these arbitrary episodes I was experiencing, I discovered that in physics, there’s something called the “observer effect”. The act of observing, in itself, changes whatever it is that you’re observing. Simply stated, it refers to “changes that the act of observation will make on the phenomenon being observed”. In other words, once I became aware of the music, it would soon stop. It’s almost as if I had to sneak up on it in a way to be able to even detect it at all. Once I discovered this, I had to ask myself, “What else is going on that I may not be aware of, much less observe”. It also made me wonder, “Do you hear this too?” Or, am I the only one with the internal radio playing the top 40.
I have spent a great deal of time learning how to be still, how to quiet my mind, how to distract myself enough to let it all go. Nevertheless, there were still many times I would wake up to a song playing in my head, even after becoming aware enough to be the observer of it. Irecognize it now as another level of consciousness, always there playing music. I’ve learned to use Trinity Energy Progression™ to raise my level of awareness and my level of consciousness above the incessant noise so that I am no longer bombarded with random music playing in my mind.
Tammy Taylor
Facilitator, Trinity Energy Progression
GO WITH THE FLOW……
Now is the time to truly go with the FLOW and allow great things to happen in your life!! This is actually quite easy to do if we simply ALLOW it. It may appear difficult on the outside because we are used to following rules and regulations to the letter; and we are accustomed to reading instruction manuals and getting other people’s advice on how to do things. We NO longer need instructions and we no longer need to listen to others. Actually, the best answers lie WITHIN ourselves. Yes, we have all the answers we need if we simply tap into our inner guidance and allow them to come through. This is intuition. Learn to listen…. Allow the answers to FLOW.
FLOW has now become a mainstay and a necessity in this new, incredible world….a world we are giving birth to right now in this present moment. The more we find our flow, the more we can create amazing things that serve us in our highest and best ways. We become connected to Spirit and divine truth. We feel the Oneness and our Creator’s unconditional love. We can release the old and bring in the new with more ease. Flow, flow flow…..it is a new code for a new mode.
Finding my flow hasn’t always been easy for me. I used to be a very devout “Type A” personality and I had a box for everything. I was a rule-follower and I became a very rigid person at a young age; and this rigid mentality stayed with me for decades. I couldn’t get beyond I was stuck for what seemed like an eternity. It wasn’t until I became very ill (because that’s the only way I would see that I needed to change) that I began to understand it was my “inferior” beliefs and “detrimental” patterns which were bringing me down. I learned that they were blocking me from progressing forward and from getting where I needed to go. The boxes were holding me back from realizing who I really was and what I was capable of doing. They affected my entire existence and I longed for a way to break through.
Trinity Energy Progression™ was the breakthrough. It has helped me open up and release the boxes and the “instructions” that I was desperately holding onto. I learned to trust in ways that I thought were unimaginable! The flow is very easy for me now and it has become a way of life. I don’t force anything and I don’t plan much ahead of time. I only plan what is necessary and I allow the universe to line up the rest. I no longer resist…I have full acceptance of everyone and everything. FLOW is like a river… the river flows in a beautiful pattern every day… the water follows its own harmonic path. It twists and turns around rocks and flora (obstacles) that get in its way. But it does not halt its movement or turn the other way. It does not analyze its actions; instead, it transforms into a lovely stream of gentle rhythms, without a care in the world. It bends, it twirls, it adapts, and it keeps GOING. The FLOW continues…..
As I stay in the flow each day, I find everything is easier and effortless. Abundance becomes natural (in all ways) and exciting experiences are more plentiful! I tap in every day through a Trinity meditation and I can easily identify what’s in my highest and best and what is not. I release those things that no longer serve me. I allow them to flow out just as much as I allow the goodness to flow in. I follow the guidance I receive and I fully trust it. I watch for messages and I am open to receiving them in any way possible. My intuition—which is the GPS of the soul—is always turned on. I allow assistance, abundance, and alignment. This is such a pleasant way to live and there are no worries. Things just fall into place! I couldn’t design my life any better if I tried. That’s the beauty of it all!! So, the practice is to FOLLOW the FLOW and not to force things. It’s more of a surrender. We will never have to force anything that is truly meant to be.
I am fluid and authentic and I feel the essence of the energetic flow. In this way, the continuity goes on….and on….and on. As the gentle breeze blows across my face…I can touch it, I can feel it, I am one with it…. I am in the FLOW.
Sandy Anthony
Facilitator, Trinity Energy Progression
“Trinity” State of Mind
Sarah Avignone, Trinity Instructor
I find myself repeating the same story over and over and realized it was worth writing down. So here it is! I started my Trinity Energy Progression™ training in November, 2012. I have had many years of training in other energy modalities and this one seemed to speak to me; no, it actually screamed to me! So, I didn’t hesitate to sign up for the class.
My life began to change that weekend. My parents were living with me and my mother’s health was deteriorating very quickly. I began to use Trinity right away to check for guidance about what was in my mother’s highest and best interest, and not allow my egoic interests to consume me. She transitioned only a few weeks after the class and it was through Trinity that I was able to feel her joy as she connected with her parents and others who were waiting to greet her. It was more joy than I have ever experienced from her during her lifetime. I knew right then that this was a very powerful tool that would change my life; and it has.
I started noticing that the days I included a Trinity meditation were the days that just flowed and weren’t full of stress. So I added that to my daily routine. Next came the impromptu shower meditations to deal with any feelings of resistance about a particular situation. Then I would finish my day with a short intention in Trinity as I fell asleep.
This routine quickly cleared out anxieties and fears that had become part of my everyday. Almost like I had grown accustomed to them and didn’t realize how much of my energy and time they consumed until they were gone. I actually felt more in charge of my life.
Looking back, this was just the beginning of how Trinity has changed my life. I like to refer to Trinity Energy Progression as a tool. You know the saying, “It’s easier with the right tool for the job”. The same is true for energy modalities! I have found that Trinity is the only tool I need. It opens a door to a place of peace and unconditional love. I use it all day everyday.
So besides the “on purpose” meditation time, I use Trinity to help with everything from heated discussions to what to have for dinner. Living in a crazy household with my husband, father, 3 teenagers, plus 3 cats and 2 dogs, I need all the peace and unconditional love I can find!! And again, I didn’t realize how much time and energy the chaos of my life consumed until it was gone. I also didn’t realize the physical and mental toll it was taking either. Not just on me but everyone in my house. Trinity is so universal and unconditional; its only limits are my imagination. Just a few examples are raising the vibration of your food to better serve the body, keeping family and myself on “auto-clear” to better navigate life, attract prosperity and abundance. I could go on and on.
The violet flame showing itself at Heart Lake, near Mt. Shasta at the Facilitator’s (Instructor) Class, July 2013.
It is amazing how much more you hear when you quiet the storms in your life. I have been able to hear my inner voice guiding me to my life’s purpose. Something I have longed for every day. In July, 2013 I took the Trinity Energy Progression Facilitators class; and yes, my life has changed even more. I find it easier to stay in a higher perspective of my life and see things more objectively. I notice that the areas of conflict in my life held purpose and the sooner I understood or accepted the purpose, the sooner they dissolved.
Don’t get me wrong, my life isn’t without ups and downs; but how I deal with and understand it all is the difference. My life is perfect in everyway. Perfect to my specifications! It is my creation. Trinity Energy Progression has given me the tool to move through my creation with all the grace and ease I will allow.
Sarah Avignone
Facilitator, Trinity Energy Progression
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